You’re Doing Great

Hey friends,

Can I just say something upfront? You’re doing so much better than you give yourself credit for. I know life can be overwhelming, messy, and downright exhausting sometimes, but take a second to pause and let this sink in: you’re here, showing up, trying your best. And that’s incredible.

Let’s talk about those “not enough” days

We all have them. Those days when it feels like no matter what you do, it’s not enough. Maybe you didn’t check everything off your to-do list. Maybe you snapped at someone you love or forgot something important. Or maybe you’re just feeling stuck and can’t quite explain why.

Here’s the truth: It’s okay to have those days. You’re human—not a machine—and you don’t need to “fix” yourself every time you feel off. Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is just be kind to yourself in those moments. Give yourself permission to rest, to breathe, and to let go of the unrealistic expectations you’re carrying.

Celebrate the little wins

You know those tiny things you do every day that you barely notice? Like sending that text you’ve been putting off, making yourself a cup of tea, or even just getting out of bed when it feels like the hardest thing in the world? Those are wins!

Life isn’t just about the big moments—the graduations, promotions, or grand achievements. It’s also about the small, quiet victories that remind you you’re still moving forward, even if it’s at your own pace. Celebrate those, because they matter. You matter.

It’s okay to not have it all figured out

Let me tell you a secret: no one has it all figured out. Seriously. Everyone you think is “crushing it” is also just trying to figure things out as they go. So if you’re feeling a little lost right now, you’re not alone. And honestly? Being lost is sometimes it’s where you discover new things about yourself, try different paths, and grow in ways you didn’t think you could.

So if you’re in the middle of figuring things out, take your time. Trust that you’re exactly where you need to be right now, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

You deserve kindness, especially from yourself

I know you’re great at being there for everyone else. You’re the friend who listens, the family member who shows up, the colleague who helps. But let me ask you this: when was the last time you showed that same kindness to yourself ?

You deserve to talk to yourself the way you’d talk to someone you love. No more beating yourself up for things you can’t control or criticizing yourself for not being “perfect.” You’re already enough, just as you are. And you deserve the same care and compassion you give to others.

So… it’s okay to not have all the answers today. It’s okay to feel a little tired, a little messy, or a little unsure. None of those things take away from your worth. You are allowed to take up space, to rest, and to take life one small step at a time.

You’ve got this. And on the days when it feels like you don’t, I’ll be here to remind you.

eHowtwo 2025

 

Welcome 2025

There’s something magical about a new year, isn’t there ? 2025 is here, and it’s inviting us to step forward—not with pressure to be perfect, but with quiet courage to keep moving, growing, and discovering. This year, let’s begin gently. There’s no need to dive headfirst into resolutions or reinvent ourselves overnight. Let’s start by simply being present. Take a deep breath and honor that you’ve made it here. 2024 might have been a wild ride—full of unexpected turns, lessons, and moments that tested your strength—but you’re here and worth celebrating.

 

2025 doesn’t need to be about grand gestures or radical transformations. What if, instead, we focused on the little things ? The tiny shifts that bring us closer to who we want to be. A morning where we choose to pause and savor our coffee. A moment where we say “no” to something that drains us and “yes” to something that fills us up. These small, intentional steps ? They’re the ones that shape our lives in the most meaningful ways.

This year, let’s also permit ourselves to grow at our own pace. There’s no rush, no race, no need to compare your journey to anyone else’s. Growth can be messy, slow, and imperfect—and that’s okay. What matters is that you keep going, even if some days it feels like all you can do is take the tiniest step forward.

And let’s remember to leave space for joy. It’s easy to get caught up in what we’re striving for, what we want to fix or improve. But life isn’t just about the end goals; it’s about the moments that make us smile, the connections that make us feel alive, and the beauty we notice along the way. 2025 will be what we make of it. A year to love a little more, forgive a little faster and savor life a little deeper. A year to remind ourselves, every single day, that we are enough, just as we are.

So here’s to the year ahead. To fresh starts, soft mornings, and the promise of brighter days. To show up, even when it’s hard. To celebrate the tiny wins and be kind to ourselves in the process. And to trust that whatever this year holds, we’ll find our way through—with courage and with hope. 

Welcome, 2025. We’re ready for you.

eHowtwo 2025

As The Calendar Turns

Here we are, standing at the edge of another year. It’s always a strange, beautiful feeling. For some of us, this year might have felt like a whirlwind, full of highs and celebrations. For others, it might have been a slow, heavy climb. And for many, it was probably a bit of both joys and struggles tangled together in the way life often is.

As the year winds down, focusing on what we didn’t accomplish is easy. The resolutions left unchecked, the plans that fell through, the days that felt wasted. But here’s the thing: you made it. You showed up to a year that wasn’t always easy. You laughed, cried, tried, failed, learned, and grew. That’s enough.

Take a moment to honor everything this year brought you even the hard stuff. Especially the hard stuff. Because it’s in those moments that we find pieces of ourselves we didn’t know existed. Strength. Resilience. Grace. And let’s not forget the little things, too. The small joys that held you together on the hard days: a kind word from a friend, a sunrise you stopped to notice, a moment of laughter that felt like a lifeline.

As the calendar turns, we often feel pressure to reinvent ourselves and be better. But maybe this year, let’s take a different approach. Let’s not demand perfection from ourselves. Let’s instead leave space for the messy, beautiful, unpredictable ways life unfolds.

And as you step into the new year, remember this: You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t need a perfect plan, a long list of goals, or a “new you.” What matters most is that you keep going.

May your next year be filled with peace, hope, and a little magic. And may you always remember: the simple act of being here, trying, and living with an open heart that’s more than enough.

Happy New Year ! You’ve made it, and that’s something worth celebrating ! thank you all  for taking part in the eHowtwo experience.

eHowtwo 2024 

Hey You

Hey you, don’t stress too much about the future. Life is like a road trip you don’t always know where you’re going, but that’s half the fun ! Enjoy the ride, make some cool stops along the way, and remember to take in the scenery. Even if you make a wrong turn, you might just find a hidden gem. You’ve got this.

Think of your life as a big, messy, colorful painting. Sometimes you spill a little paint or make a line that doesn’t quite fit, but that makes it yours. Don’t aim for perfection aim for authenticity. Keep adding new colors, new shapes, and new strokes. Because in the end, your masterpiece is going to be uniquely beautiful.

eHowtwo 2024 

Enough

In the hustle and bustle of life, amidst the endless pursuit of perfection and the relentless comparison to others, it’s easy to lose sight of a fundamental truth you are enough just as you are, with all your imperfections, with your unique blend of strengths and weaknesses, you are enough. You are enough means that your mistakes don’t define you; they are opportunities to learn and grow. It means your value isn’t diminished by someone else’s inability to see it. 

Your worth isn’t calculated based on your productivity, your relationship status, or your social media following. In a world that often shouts that you need to be more, do more, or have more, embracing your enoughness is an act of rebellion. It’s a journey towards self-acceptance, where you start to appreciate your own company, celebrate your achievements (no matter how small), and accept your flaws as part of what makes you unique.

Remember, being enough doesn’t mean you have all the answers or that you’ve reached your final destination. It’s about acknowledging your value as you navigate through the ups and downs of life. It’s about knowing that in every moment, through every challenge and triumph, you are worthy of love, respect, and kindness. Even on those days when the world feels heavy, you are more than enough. On the mornings when leaving the warmth of your bed feels like the day’s biggest challenge, your worth is immeasurable. You are enough even when your heart has been hurt by someone you love and care about.

There will be times when you gaze into the mirror and feel disconnected from the reflection staring back at you. In those moments of doubt, remember, you are still enough. Your essence, your being, cannot be diminished by fleeting feelings of uncertainty. Life can be a whirlwind, leaving you feeling overwhelmed, with tasks undone and words unsaid. On these days when fatigue takes hold and you feel you haven’t done ‘enough,’ know that your efforts, no matter how small, are significant. 

You are, have always been, and will always be enough. 

eHowtwo 2024